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Thursday, 11 June 2026

‘OutConnect 2026 – Building Proud Businesses’ 29th June

 



 

OutBritain, the UK’s first LGBTQ+ chamber of commerce, invites you to join ‘OutConnect 2026 – Building Proud Businesses’ which is taking place at Sky HQ in Isleworth, west London on the afternoon of Monday 29th June. Organised by OutBritain and proudly hosted by Sky, this exciting mini conference will bring together LGBTQ+ businesses, corporate partners, procurement leaders, and changemakers for an afternoon focused on connection, collaboration, and real commercial opportunity. The event is free to attend and you can register online here: https://luma.com/vmirsezf

OutConnect is designed to create meaningful conversations between LGBTQ+ suppliers and organisations actively looking to build more inclusive supply chains, partnerships, and business relationships. Whether you are looking to grow your network, gain insight into corporate procurement, or connect with organisations committed to economic inclusion, this promises to deliver.


Throughout the afternoon, they’ll explore topics including:

• The evolution of supplier inclusion

• What corporates are looking for from SMEs with regards to social impact

• The role of ERGs in inclusive sourcing

• How inclusion can translate into long-term commercial impact

There will also be dedicated networking opportunities to connect with corporate representatives, partners and LGBTQ+ founders and professionals.

📍 Sky Group Headquarters, Isleworth, west London

📅 Monday 29th June 2026

🕐 1:15pm – 7:00pm (formal proceedings run from 2pm to 5.30pm and will be followed by networking)

The conference is free to attend, however spaces are limited and demand is expected to be high, so OutBritain encourage early registration. Register online here: https://luma.com/vmirsezf

 

Sunday, 7 June 2026

Invitation to HIM – A New Play at the Union Theatre for Pride Festival

 


Performances

  • Dates
    10 June 2026 - 12 June 2026
  • Times
  • Performances on 10th and 12th at 7pm

Tickets

  • Full Price£22
  • Concession £20
  • Nimbus carer assistant card holder £0

Running Time

  • 90 minutes

HIM.


  • WRITTEN BY Natalie Ekberg
  • DIRECTED BY Simon Fielding

Overview

When Jane unexpectedly falls pregnant with Charlie, she agrees that he will raise the child with his new partner, Osmond. But, over time, their genuine yet imperfect agreement begins to crack under the weight of lingering doubt, buried resentment and conflicting loyalties.

Darkly funny, emotionally charged and painfully honest, HIM explores the fragile truths and lies we construct to protect ourselves and the people we care about most. Because some decisions shape a lifetime. And some debts will never truly be repaid.

Friday, 5 June 2026

Big Gay Brunch Saturday 4th of July Actor's Church Covent Garden

 



 

 

 

 

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

The Big Gay Brunch Returns to Covent Garden for a ‘Camp Village FĂȘte’ This Pride Saturday

LONDON, UK — As London prepares for its most vibrant weekend of the year, The Big Gay Brunch announces its highly anticipated return to the heart of the West End. On Saturday, 4 July 2026, the stunning gardens of The Actors’ Church in Covent Garden will be transformed into a ‘camp village fĂȘte,’ offering a stylish and relaxed alternative to the hectic Pride parade route.

Supported once again by Shaftesbury Capital, and this year also by Covent Garden’s The Yards and Westminster City Council, the event kicks off at 11:00 AM, welcoming the LGBTQ+ community and allies for a morning of "Big Gay Energy," high-end glamour, and community spirit.

A Chilled Sanctuary in the Heart of Pride

Set within the historic grounds of St. Paul’s Covent Garden (The Actors’ Church), the event swaps the crowded streets for a lush garden setting filled with classic garden games, music, and local artisans.

Highlights of the 2026 Edition:

·        The Glam Station: Get Pride Ready with professional glow-ups from the cosmetic icons at Charlotte Tilbury.

·        Queer Makers Market: Shop a curated selection of goods from local LGBTQ+ creators and independent businesses.

·        Star-Studded Hosting: A fabulous headline host (to be announced) will keep the energy high throughout the afternoon.

·        World-Class Raffle: Guests can win West End Theatre experiences, including tickets to hits Magic Mike Live, The Hunger Games, and Harry Potter, plus dinner for two at the legendary theatre haunt, Joe Allen.

Supporting 50 Years of Community Care

Beyond the brunch and bubbles, the event serves a vital purpose. All proceeds from the day’s raffle will benefit London Friend, the UK’s oldest LGBTQ+ charity. Celebrating more than 50 years of service, London Friend provides essential health and mental wellbeing support to the community, making this a celebration with a heartbeat.

"The Big Gay Brunch is about more than just a party; it’s about creating a space where our community can celebrate together in a beautiful, historic setting while giving back to the organisations that keep us safe and healthy," say the event organisers.”

 

 

Event Details

·        What: The Big Gay Brunch

·        When: Saturday, 4 July 2026 | From 11:00 AM

·        Where: The Actors’ Church (St. Paul’s), Bedford St, London WC2E 9ED

·        Tickets: Entry is free

Media Contact: Josephine Buchan

Email: josephinebkf@gmail.com   Tel: +44 7525 835854

About London Friend: Established in 1972, London Friend is the UK’s oldest LGBTQ+ charity. They support the health and mental wellbeing of the LGBTQ+ community in and around London, offering counselling, support groups, and the UK’s only dedicated LGBTQ+ drug and alcohol service, Antidote.

About The Actors’ Church: St Paul’s Church, commonly known as the Actors' Church, has a long-standing association with the theatre community. Located in the heart of Covent Garden, it remains a focal point for the performing arts and community gatherings.

 

Tickets available at: https://actorschurch.org/whatson/big-gay-brunch/

 

For more information, please contact: 

Josephine Buchan, Producer: Josephinebkf@gmail.com / +44 (0) 7525 835 854

or

Sarah Millar at sarah@sarahmillar.co.uk

 

Thursday, 4 June 2026

Member Highlight - James Hazlett-Beard

 

Name: James Hazlett-Beard

 

Bio: 
After 15+ years in the fashion and advertising industry, founding an agency and partnering with clients including Lisa Rinna, Prada, and Vogue, James shifted his focus from empowering clients on set to transforming the leaders behind them. 
Now a neurocoach and consultant, James helps changemakers clear the subconscious barriers holding them back. By leveraging the power of neuroplasticity (the very method he used to create his own breakthroughs), James facilitates profound mindset shifts, freeing clients from limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, and more. 
He creates gentle, powerful, and lasting change, allowing clients to move forward with a deeper sense of inner alignment, resilience, and personal power.

Friday, 29 May 2026

from our member Matt Skallerud/Pink Media: DEI Goes Dark: Why “Stealth Inclusion” Is Growing — and Why Visibility Still Wins

 

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DEI Goes Dark: Why “Stealth Inclusion” Is Growing — and Why Visibility Still Wins

Hello from Pink Media: A Company With Influence!

Here’s a number that stopped me in my tracks this week: only 131 Fortune 500 companies publicly documented their DEI practices in 2026. That’s down from 377 companies last year — a 65% collapse in transparency in the span of twelve months. The data, surfaced by researchers at Human Resources Director / hcamag.com and picked up by Fox Business, tells a story that anyone in LGBTQ+ marketing has felt building for a while: the great corporate retreat from public commitment is in full swing.

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But here’s the nuance that I think matters most — and the part that gets lost in the headlines. Researchers are careful to note that companies are retreating from transparency, not necessarily from inclusion itself. Internal LGBTQ+ employee programs are continuing at many of these companies. Employee Resource Groups still meet. Internal commitments still exist on paper. What’s changing is whether any of it sees the light of day publicly.

That distinction has given rise to a trend that’s been quietly spreading through HR and marketing circles — call it “stealth inclusion”, or what some are already calling “quiet allyship.” And the more I sit with it, the more I want to make a case — respectfully but directly — for why it’s not enough.

The “DEI Goes Dark” Reality

Let me set the scene. After the Bud Light and Target double boycotts of 2023, a lot of major companies looked at the risk calculus and said, “Whoa. Let’s slow down.” That reaction was understandable — if painful — to watch from where we sit at Pink Media and the #ILoveGay network. And over the past two-plus years, the pullback has compounded: political pressure, state-level legislation targeting DEI programs, executive orders at the federal level, and a media environment that made corporate LGBTQ+ support feel like a political statement rather than a business-as-usual commitment.

The 65% drop in Fortune 500 DEI transparency isn’t an accident. It’s the result of companies running a deliberate calculation: “What’s the upside of being public about our inclusion programs, versus the potential for coordinated backlash?” In many boardrooms, that calculation is coming back negative. So they’re going quiet.

What that looks like in practice: internal Pride Month events with no press releases. LGBTQ+ Employee Resource Groups that still operate but aren’t mentioned in external communications. DEI pages quietly removed from corporate websites. Philanthropic dollars that still flow to LGBTQ+ organizations — but without the public announcement that used to accompany them. The inclusion work continues, in some form, but the brand stops claiming it.

I want to acknowledge something here before I push back: for some companies navigating genuinely hostile environments — especially those with locations in states with active anti-LGBTQ+ legislation — stealth inclusion may be the difference between keeping LGBTQ+ employees safe and protected versus making them a target. That’s real. That matters. I’m not here to criticize every quiet approach across every context.

But that’s the exception, not the rule. And as a business strategy applied broadly, stealth inclusion has some serious problems.

The Business Case Isn’t Going Away

Here’s what I’ve been saying for over 30 years in this space, and the data keeps backing it up: the LGBTQ+ community rewards visible, authentic allies — and we notice who goes quiet.

The LGBTQ+ consumer market represents hundreds of billions of dollars in annual purchasing power. And this community — which has spent decades learning to read between the lines of corporate messaging — is extraordinarily attuned to the difference between genuine commitment and performative support. We know when a company has gone dark. We know when a brand’s social media suddenly stops mentioning us. We notice when Pride month comes and a company that used to celebrate with us is silent. And that silence gets logged. It gets talked about. It affects where we spend our money.

This is the piece that the “stealth inclusion” calculation tends to miss. The calculation is framed as: “What’s our downside risk if we’re publicly visible?” But it rarely factors in: “What’s our downside risk if the LGBTQ+ community sees us as having abandoned them?” The 65% of Fortune 500 companies that went quiet this year didn’t just escape scrutiny — many of them forfeited trust. And in a community that skews young, urban, socially connected, and brand-conscious, forfeited trust is forfeited revenue.

I saw this up close in 2023. After Bud Light and Target, some companies that pulled back thought they were playing it safe from both sides — not too much to attract right-wing boycotts, not too little to lose LGBTQ+ customers entirely. What actually happened is they ended up trusted by neither side. Some companies were only in it halfheartedly, and they weren’t completely our partners. The community has a long memory.

What “Stealth Inclusion” Gets Wrong About LGBTQ+ Community Dynamics

There’s a fundamental misunderstanding at the core of the quiet allyship strategy — and it comes from not understanding how the LGBTQ+ community actually processes corporate behavior.

When a brand publicly commits — shows up consistently, tells LGBTQ+ stories 24/7, 365 days a year, not just in June — it builds what I’d call community equity. That equity is earned over time through authentic, visible engagement. It’s the reason some brands can weather a controversy or a stumble without losing the community, while others collapse the moment things get complicated. Community equity is built publicly. It cannot be built quietly.

Stealth inclusion assumes that doing the internal work is what matters most — and that the external declaration is just marketing, nice-to-have, separable from the substance. But for the LGBTQ+ community, the public declaration is part of the substance. Visibility matters to us — literally, existentially. When a major brand stands up publicly and says “we see you, we support you, we stand with you,” that has value beyond the marketing impression. It contributes to social normalization. It signals to LGBTQ+ employees inside that company that they’re safe. It shifts what other brands feel permission to do. Doing that work quietly, behind closed doors, removes that ripple effect from the world.

We don’t have the luxury of just pulling back, jumping back into the closet, and waiting for a better day. So when brands try to have it both ways — maintaining internal programs while going dark publicly — the community tends to read that clearly: “They care enough not to abandon us entirely, but not enough to stand with us where it might cost them something.” That’s a very different message than authentic partnership.

What Brands Actually Need Right Now: Visible Commitment, Smart Execution

I’m not suggesting every brand needs to make a grand declaration or run a full Pride campaign in every market regardless of context. That’s not what smart LGBTQ+ marketing looks like in 2026. What I am arguing is that the answer to a difficult political environment is not silence — it’s smarter, more targeted, more authentic visibility.

Here’s what that can look like in practice:

Year-round LGBTQ+ content, not just Pride Month peaks. The brands that weather political pressure best are the ones whose LGBTQ+ commitment is woven into their ongoing storytelling — not a seasonal activation that can be switched on and off. When you’re consistently showing up in LGBTQ+ media, conversations, and communities all year, one difficult news cycle doesn’t define your relationship with us. This is exactly why the #ILoveGay Content Marketing Ad Network is built for always-on engagement — 17 million monthly LGBTQ+ impressions across display, social, and email, reaching the community every week of the year, not just in June.

Targeted media buys that reach the LGBTQ+ community where they live. A brand can maintain authentic LGBTQ+ outreach without triggering broad consumer backlash by being strategic about where they show up. LGBTQ+-specific media, apps, and platforms allow you to reach the community directly, with relevance and depth, without the mass-market exposure that invites organized opposition campaigns. That’s not hiding — that’s being BROADER yet more targeted, which is what good LGBTQ+ marketing has always been about.

Content as advertising, not just campaign declarations. The Content as Advertising approach we’ve used at Pink Media for years is particularly well-suited to this environment. Start with a story — a client testimonial, a community profile, a product feature that resonates authentically with LGBTQ+ audiences — and amplify it through channels that reach our community. That storytelling doesn’t require a press release announcing your LGBTQ+ commitment. It demonstrates the commitment through genuine engagement. It’s harder to attack because it’s harder to caricature.

Internal + external, not internal instead of external. Keep the employee programs. Keep the ERGs. Keep the internal commitments. But find the visible channels that let the community know those commitments are real — even if the execution looks different than it did three years ago. Silence isn’t safety. It’s just a different kind of risk.

The Bottom Line

The 65% collapse in Fortune 500 DEI transparency is a real signal about where we are in 2026. It reflects a political environment that has made public LGBTQ+ commitment feel risky in ways it didn’t just a few years ago. I understand that. But the research that surfaces this data also includes a crucial caveat: companies aren’t abandoning inclusion — they’re abandoning transparency. And that distinction is exactly where the opportunity lives.

The brands that will come out of this political moment with LGBTQ+ community trust intact are the ones that find authentic ways to stay visible — not with performative rainbow logos, but with genuine, consistent, targeted engagement that shows the community they haven’t been forgotten. The ones that go completely dark — or retreat entirely into “stealth” mode — are making a short-term calculation that may feel safe right now, but carries long-term brand and revenue risk that their models probably aren’t capturing.

At Pink Media and #ILoveGay, we’ve been helping brands navigate exactly this challenge — building authentic LGBTQ+ visibility that works in a complex political environment, using targeted channels, storytelling-first strategy, and the kind of consistent, year-round community engagement that builds real equity. That’s what we do. And right now, it’s more relevant than ever.

Is your brand trying to figure out how to stay authentically engaged with the LGBTQ+ community in 2026? Let’s talk — Pink Media is here to help. We work with organizations of all sizes (starting at $500), and we’d love to prove to you that you can reach the LGBTQ+ community authentically — and effectively — even right now.

Authentic LGBTQ+ engagement, 24/7, 365 days a year. That’s what Pink Media: A Company With Influence, and the #ILoveGay Network are built for.

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You're invited: Business Growth Service Roadshow

 

Invitation

Tuesday 18 June, 09:00 - 13:30

Austin Court, 80 Cambridge St, Birmingham, B1 2NP

 


Get ready to access the support, funding, and expert guidance that can help take your business to the next level.


The Backing Your Business - Business Growth Service Roadshow is coming to Birmingham, and we’re delighted to invite you to join us.


On Thursday 18th June, the Business Growth Service at the Department for Business and Trade are hosting an in-person event, delivered in partnership with the West Midlands Growth Company and will bring together, the full range of government backed business support directly to the heart of the West Midlands’ SME community.


This high-energy event is designed to help your business start, grow, and thrive. Whether you're launching something new, accelerating your scaleup journey, or seeking expert advice to unlock your next opportunity, you’ll find the insights, connections, and inspiration you need.


We have an agenda full of insights, and a range of breakout sessions for you to engage in:


Spotlight on the Business Growth Service

  • Find out more about the national and local programmes available to help your business to grow.

Launch of the West Midlands Access to Finance Plan

  • Engage with the regional plans to support SMEs with financial decision-making and hear from financial experts on how best to borrow to fuel growth.

A ‘Good Debt’ Panel Session

  • An opportunity to learn more about accessing and using finance to support growth

A range of breakout sessions to choose from:

  • Support with finance applications
  • How to find and choose the right product
  • How to pitch for funding

Networking with business experts

  • Sign up to free 1-1 mentoring sessions and make the most of the ample opportunities to connect with fellow SMEs and business leaders

Don’t miss this opportunity to unlock new pathways for your business. Please confirm your participation no later than Monday 8th June by registering here.

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