Friday, 8 July 2022

LGBTQIA+ Fostering Q&A

 My name is Alicia Agius, I represent The Children's Family Trust - A fostering charity with regional offices all over the UK. 


We're holding a remote Q&A event aimed at encouraging the LGBTQIA+ community in Yorkshire to consider fostering not only as an option to build a family, but as a career choice. Would you consider helping us promote the event across social media and via your blog?



I look forward to hearing from you! 



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Alicia Agius
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Friday, 1 July 2022

Human Right in Rwanda

 Dear Friends:

Greetings from Rwanda we do hope our email finds you well.

We are a Human Rights organization from Rwanda (Human Rights First Rwanda Association)  hereinafter HRFRA intervening in the protection and legal/rights empowerment of the most marginalized, disadvantaged  and vulnerable segments of our society including sexual minorities.


We have previously advocated with other coalition civil society members on behalf of sexual minorities actions and activities not to be criminalized  under the penal code of Rwanda which was successful.

our efforts in this endeavor are geared at.

  • Promoting coalitions that work to strengthen advocacy efforts to improve conditions for LGBTIQ individuals;
  • Protect and promote LGBTIQ rights through legal aid, psychosocial support, research based advocacy and awareness raising of their rights.

HRFRA hosted the first ever East and Central Africa Regional Conference in Kigali in August 2021 to discuss issues and challenges of Sexual minorities in the great lakes region and how to forge a common advocacy agenda in support of the rights and specifically on right to association of LGBTIQ groups in the region. Find below featured articles of the event and attached outcome Document.

https://www.theeastafrican.co.ke/tea/magazine/minorities-still-face-discrimination-despite-rights-laws-3545028

https://pressbox.rw/2021/09/08/kigali-workshop-discusses-challenges-among-sexual-minorities-across-the-region/

We currently hosting four LGBT+ organizations namely Rwanda Gender Pride, Proud organization, Safe Friendly Society and Feminist Action Development Association on Trans. Gay, Bisexual and Lesbian rights respectively.  HRFRA has also been deeply involved in the organizing of the International Day against Homophobia and Transphobia (IDAHOT) in Kigali where we have been part of discussion panels presenting views from a Human Rights Perspective.   At regional level we belong to the Pan African International Lesbian and Gay Association (PAN AFRICA ILGA) and we wrote a paper on Intersectionality focusing on LGBTI rights on the same forum. HRFRA was part of the team that drafted the LomĂ© Protocol of 2014 that solidified the position of Sexual minorities at a continental level. We engage the media in advocacy and provide awareness to the masses on the plight of the LGBTIQ community in Rwanda. https://bit.ly/2oHlQuX


However, despite all the efforts we have done so far LGBTIQ persons continue to face daily discrimination, violence and Isolation from both state and non-state actors and this has heightened during the COVID-19 pandemic outbreak which has especially affected LGBTIQ youth who harm themselves with risk behaviors such as drug abuse and suicide.

https://rwandatoday.africa/rwanda/news/pandemic-hits-rwanda-s-sexual-minorities-harder--3231252

They do not enjoy the right to Association which is a fundamental human Right and are treated as lesser persons.  They cannot register their Associations or Non-Governmental organizations.

 

They cannot access gainful employment, education because of their sexual orientation status and are living at the fringe of poverty. 

 

It is against this backdrop that we seek to empower the LGBTIQ groups to become their own Human rights defenders, make advocacy for their organizations to be registered, included in Government policies as a marginalized and disadvantaged group and also continue to give them Legal aid and psycho social support.

However, we cannot attain the above objectives without the support of well-wishers and partnering with like minded organizations . 


It is against this background that we seek to partner with your organization  in making a  better world for the LGBTIQ community  where they are free from discrimination and Violence.


You can also share with friends and support us at:

 

https://www.globalgiving.org/projects/uphold-sexual-minority-rights-in-the-great-lakes/

 

 

 

We look forward to your consideration in this regard 

 

Sincerely,

 

Me Musangwa Jonathan

 

Programs coordinator

 

HUMAN RIGHTS FIRST RWANDA ASSOCIATION

B.P 7564 Kigali/Rwanda

KK 495 st HSe 77

 

 

Tel: +250-0788623625/252584621

 

https://www.facebook.com/rightsrwanda/?ref=br_rs

 

www.rightsrwanda.com



 

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Micro Rainbow

 

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Dear Jean-Francois

This June we turned 10 years old! We are proud of our growth over the years and to have supported almost 6,000 LGBTQI people fleeing persecution so far, of which 1,000 were in 2021 alone. Have a piece of cake in our honour to celebrate our anniversary.

This milestone comes at a time when we, as many others, are facing some serious challenges:
  • we are still managing the impact of COVID-19 on our services, which resulted in a 50% increase in the number of people we support;
  • the return to power of the Taliban in Afghanistan poses life-threatening risks to LGBTQI people. Some are reaching the UK and we are doing our best to support them with one-to-one case work, a dedicated helpline, workshops and much more;
  • as a result of the war in Ukraine many wonderful LGBTQI British people have offered their homes to LGBTQI Ukrainians, and we are working closely with our partners to match them through the “Home for Ukraine” sponsorship scheme;
  • Lastly, we cannot not mention the elephant in the room: the recent Nationality and Borders Bill and its cruel Rwanda policy which will penalise LGBTQI asylum seekers severely. Find out more from our CEO, Sebastian Rocca, who addressed some of the challenges with Pink News on World Refugee Day.
These crises are testing our capacity, but we are thankful to our allies and institutional donors who are helping us to expand our team to help as many people as possible.

In typical Micro Rainbow style, we will end on a hopeful note. Here are a few reasons to be grateful (and yes, we were determined to make sure they were more than the challenges!):
  • read this moving account of the power of our social inclusion programme in creating connections, safety nets and friends for life, like family;
  • it’s Pride Month! We have been raising awareness and speaking at dozens of events which gave us a real buzz. You still have time to support us, become an ally or chose an item for our safe houses from our Amazon Wish List;
  • We have now reached 16 safe houses for homeless LGBTQI asylum seekers despite the hostile environment and the increasing cost of living (and utility bills!);
  • We gave Channel 5 exclusive access to one of our safe houses. They talked to four LGBTQI people from Brazil, Russia, Pakistan and Kyrgyzstan. In this 5-minute documentary they spoke bravely about their stories changing people’s hearts and minds;
  • Last but not least, we were named one of the top 100 social enterprises in the UK for the second year running; we are thrilled to see our work being externally recognised.
We hope you enjoyed reading our updates. We certainly enjoy sharing them with you and going through the Micro Rainbow journey together.

The Micro Rainbow team
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Sadler's Wells offer

Good Morning.

 

Hope well.

 

Sadler’s Wells, have allocated £9 tickets for my mailing lists for Birmingham Royal Ballet’s Don Quixote (please see e-flyer below)

 

Please note that these tickets are only for the performance on Wed 6 July at 7.30pm.

 

To access the £9 tickets please use the booking link on e-flyer below or go online and use my promocode DONQ9

 

I would be grateful if you can please help pass on this offer to your staff and members.

 

Thanks for your support.

 

Bid Mosaku

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Birmingham Royal Ballet
– Don Quixote

Wed 6 Jul at 7.30pm

Birmingham Royal Ballet’s Director, Carlos Acosta, promises entertainment for all ages when he brings an explosion of Spanish sunshine, spectacular dance and vivacious comedy to the Sadler’s Wells stage.

In a new production created especially for Birmingham Royal BalletDon Quixote introduces us to Cervantes’ famous knight himself, lovers Kitri and Basilio, and a host of supporting characters. As the Don sets out on a quest to track down his true love, with his loyal friend and servant Sancho Panza at his side, he finds himself embroiled in an unlikely adventure of love and dreams.

Get £9 tickets for the first UK performances of Acosta’s sparkling new 21st-century production of this 19th-century masterpiece. Featuring live music played by the Royal Ballet Sinfonia.

 

 

Click the link below to get £9 tickets or use promo code DONQ9

 

 

*Available only for the performance on Wednesday 6 July at 7.30pm and on certain price types, subject to availability. Not available retrospectively or in conjunction with any other offer. Transaction fees apply to all telephone and online bookings. This promotion must not be shared beyond this email.

 

Not sure how to apply a promo code? Read our short guide to booking your £9 tickets for Don Quixote. 

 

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Wednesday, 11 May 2022

From the link Newsletter

 

Introduction from the Editor

Dear Link Members,
 
It is always a great honour to be able to write to you and today I would like to use this opportunity to dedicate my editorial, and this month’s newsletter to our trans and non-binary members.

As most of you will no doubt have seen and/or heard, over recent years and months there has been a worrying increase in the amount of abuse and negative discourse surrounding the rights of trans and non-binary people in the UK and around the world, with one of the most recent examples being the exclusion of trans and non-binary people from the UK government’s ban on conversion therapy.

Like many of you, I have seen my trans and non-binary friends subject to the most horrific abuse on social media and elsewhere and have been making efforts to become a better ally in order to support them as well as all trans and non-binary people. We are one LGBTQIA+ community, with both shared and individual experiences and we all deserve to be accepted, to be celebrated and to live our lives without fear.

Following publication of our trans statement, in addition, I have found a very informative article on the website of Amnesty International UK, which contains the following advice on how we can all support trans and non-binary people and be a good ally. I wanted to share that with you here:”

Respect people’s names
Use the name and gender a trans person tells you to use. Don’t ask what their ‘real’ name or gender is – this is disrespectful and distressing.
 
Gender identity and gender expression are different
Gender identity is someone’s personal and intimate sense of their own gender. Gender expression is how they choose to reflect their gender identity in their physical appearance. Don’t make assumptions about someone’s gender based on the way they dress – it may not reflect their gender identity or the appearance usually associated with their gender identity.
 
Use correct pronouns
Some people prefer gender-neutral pronouns such as they/their and ze/zir. If you are unsure which pronoun to use, wait for an appropriate moment and ask. Alternatively, indicate the pronouns you use first – this gives people an opportunity to say theirs too.
 
Appreciate gender diversity
All gender identities are valid and should be supported equally. If someone’s gender is outside of the gender binary or they don’t have a gender identity at all, it simply reflects the diversity of people’s identities.
 
Support everyone
Recognise and respect the lives and experiences of all trans and non-binary people, and understand the oppression they face. This includes supporting trans people of colour, sex workers, and people with disabilities.
 
Help your friends
Going to a gendered bathroom or changing room can be difficult for trans people, especially when they are made to feel like they don’t belong.
One practical thing you can do to help your trans friends – if they want you to – is to go inside with them. This ensures they don’t have to face any potential transphobia alone.
 
Call out transphobia
Challenge friends and family members who make transphobic comments. Dealing with toxic, dehumanising attitudes can be extremely draining and distressing for trans people. Support from others can really help.
 
Listen and learn
Learning the appropriate terminology and language can be daunting. If you make a mistake, apologise and learn from the experience.
Honest mistakes – as opposed to intentional attempts to invalidate someone’s identity – don’t make you transphobic.
 
Don’t out anyone
It can be dangerous for trans people to be open about their gender identity. Don’t tell anyone about someone’s gender identity without their consent, even if they have come out to their friends, family or wider society.
 
Educate yourself
It’s important to learn more about trans experiences but remember that trans people are not walking encyclopaedias.  Organisations like StonewallMermaidsGendered Intelligence and GLAAD have lots of resources online.
 
I wish you all a very pleasant and productive May.

Simon Storvik-Green (he/him)

Women Loving Women in the Caribbean

 

A Conversation with Prof. Omise’eke Tinsley
   
Queer History 101
 
 

Women Loving Women in the Caribbean

 

A Conversation with Prof. Omise’eke Tinsley

 
Dr. Eric Cervini
Apr 28
 

Hey class! A couple announcements before our lesson:

  1. We are just a few dozen away from our goal of 10,000 signatures on our petition to ban pro-hate corporations at Pride this year. Will you sign it really quick so we can present it to NYC Pride first thing in May? :)
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That's all! Enjoy the lesson <3

x Eric

Welcome back to Queer History 101!

Queerness finds a way to survive and thrive wherever it goes, even under colonial oppression. Professor Omise’eke Tinsley, who teaches Black Studies at the University of California Santa Barbara, proves that history of resilience with her research, which focuses on queer and feminist Caribbean and African-American performance and literature. I sat down to chat with her about one of her many books, Thiefing Sugar: Eroticism between Women in Caribbean Literature.

Tinsley began her study of Caribbean queerness in literature during her senior year of college. As she was writing her thesis on Caribbean women’s literature, she asked one of her professors about the existence of Caribbean lesbian literature. “I was told by a professor who was from the African continent, that there was not really such a thing,” said Tinsley. “And that was probably because ‘homosexuality’–her word, not mine–didn't exist in Africa, and it was a European thing.”

Tinsley left the idea alone for a while, but it continued to brew in the back of her mind. In graduate school, during a summer in the Netherlands, she found a book by Gloria Wekker about mati work, the tradition of relationships and love between Black women in Suriname. “And so at that point, something clicked in me: these aren't little examples here and there. This is a tradition that has nothing to do with priests, or nuns, or anything but women living together and making community together and loving each other in the ways that support their lives.”

This book, and the love songs documented in it, sparked her interest in hunting down more queer Caribbean literature and poetry. “I have these vivid memories of these poems from the 1930s, finding them in the library in Berkeley and crying,” remembered Tinsley. “Like, ‘I knew this was here somewhere, I just didn't know where.’”

Tinsley’s book collects many of these literary works and ties them together with the concept of “thiefing sugar.” Borrowed from Canadian-Trinidadian author Dionne Brand’s In Another Place, Not Here, the phrase describes the reclamation of the history of love between women in the Caribbean. The Caribbean region is shaped by the sugar industry, which relied upon enslaved people from the coast of Africa. Sugar was “a really, really valuable commodity,” said Tinsley. “In some places, it was punishable by death to eat sugar while growing it, and sometimes people had muzzles on so that they couldn't eat the cane."

“And so you know, 'thiefing sugar,' the metaphor, is thinking about reclaiming that which is ours, but that has been taken from us,” she continued. “The idea that desire between women was once as common as cane growing, but also regulated and prohibited in these ways. And that to ‘thief sugar’ is to take back some of the sweetness that we create for our own use. So it's a metaphor that combines the colonial history, but also the history of sweetness and eroticism in women's history and queer history wherever we find ourselves.”

Those histories are older than we might think: the names that women have for their women lovers “are tied into West African-based spiritual systems,” explained Tinsley. “There's a whole cosmology in which somebody who's assigned female at birth loving somebody else who's assigned female at birth, or somebody who lives their lives as a woman, makes sense.” And while the colonizers thought it was a “dirty practice” and recorded it as such, for most people, “it was just part of the possibilities of life,” she said. “It was something that was understood as part of the universe and a part of a larger system, of how human beings interact with the divine and with each other.”

Tinsley’s evidence for these traditions stems from “luck and chance,” she said. She explored “literary histories where people were talking in a way that was strange. They were talking about people as ‘feminists, or as having ‘close relationships with other women.’ So I was reading against the grain, and then I would try and track these texts down.”

The texts she found didn’t necessarily spell out queerness, and most of their authors weren’t openly queer. “Following your gut and reading creatively was necessary to do this work,” Tinsley said. And while some scholars didn’t agree with these strategies, she pressed on because she had a choice. She could "continue to be silent about these love poems that are dedicated to women,” continuing the historical erasure of these relationships.

“Or, we can work with what's here. Because I'm always working with histories of the present. I'm interested in stories of the past that help us create space for ourselves in the present. And if that's what's there to work with, I think working with it creatively is a queer way to do literature.”

These queer literary works hold in themselves possibilities of decolonization and liberation. Thiefing Sugar focuses on the “really, really old” tradition of writing about beloved women as landscapes, a motif common across cultures and throughout history. But, said Tinsley, “I was interested in how Caribbean women imagine their women lovers in the same terms as flowers and fruit, but imagining that these natural sweetnesses could be reclaimed for their own use.”

That imagination is itself liberatory. “Black women having full use of our bodies and their possibilities is a decolonial project,” she said. “Without imagining that women have a right to use our bodies for whatever–they're not there to be in service of men or children–as long as Black women's bodies are imagined as in service to someone else, the colonial project is still going on.”

The colonial project continues through not only gender, but also through sexuality. While laws against sex between women in the Caribbean are few and fairly recent, the laws against sex between men “were copied straight from British law–a direct colonial import.” Combating homophobia, then, is a radical and decolonizing act.

“Oftentimes, I feel like young Caribbean American folks, but also young African-American folks, have this idea that Black people are extra special homophobic, or that homophobia is a big problem in the Black community,” said Tinsley. “And part of what I wanted to do with this book, and what I still want to do is to communicate to people, ‘That's actually not our history. That's not our tradition.’”

In fact, she argued, “This is part of what our ancestors fought to make possible for us: for us to love who we want. A lot of histories are being cut out right now; they've been cut out to discourage us from living our lives.”

We need those histories, and we need to pass them on–not only because it’s important that we know our past, but also because they teach us about what to do now. “I was living in Texas in 2016 when Trump was elected,” she explained. “There were stories about how to survive the segregated south that my grandparents hadn't passed on, because they thought I wasn't going to need them. And at that moment, I needed them. How can you protest conditions while also staying safe?”

“We're in that moment again with Black histories and with queer histories,” concluded Tinsley. “We need to have these stories from the past so that we know how to survive our present and fight for our future.”

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